A Forum is like a minimal version of your society - there are polite people, there are rude people, there are intelligent people, there are the fools, there are people who call the shots, then there are the kind ones that whisper a word of advice or encouragement, when everyone seems to be too bent on pushing you towards the ground; and yes, there are heroes as there are villains.
These being said, a forum can be a nice place to hang around, a good place to learn, and the best place to meet up people who are like-minded and believe in the same things that you do. Joining a forum is like walking into a large party, where everyone is a stranger to you. You have to learn to chat up with new people, and also learn to make some sense.
Some forums are relatively friendlier to new people (noobs, as we like to call them), and are forgiving of all the nonsense that is associated with them. I am not suggesting here that new people are all fools or that all noobs are agents of nonsense - but I have been to quiet a number of forums, and that is usually the case. So, it would be wise on your part to distinguish yourself from the rest, and prove to the other people that you are worthy of their time.
Another thing to do is to try and be polite to everyone, irrespective of whether they are polite to you or not. If two short-tempered people get in on an argument on a forum, it inevitably turns into what poeple call a flame war. And believe me, it is not a pretty sight. Flame wars on forums are what gang fights are at bars - both usually end with people taking sides, and both sides fighting till they forget what they are fighting for, in the first place.
Try to read up on whatever you are going to post. And don't speak unless you are absolutely sure of what you are saying. Failure to comply will make you look like a fool :P Also have in mind that the question that you are going to ask has already been asked and answered twice over, in a couple of hundred forums across the internet. If you can find it in Google, you have no business asking it in a forum.
You may think that gaining the favor of the forum's administrators or moderators may work in your favor. You will never have been more wrong in your life. People who try to flatter admins and mods are loathed by other members of the community. Try not to be that guy who agrees with whatever the admin says, and has no opinion of his own.
If every single person on a forum calls you a jerk, then that probably means that you are one. Try to change your attitude. Go over posts and personal messages again, and try to think of what went wrong, and where. Beware. Forums treat jerks the way teachers treat students with incomplete homework - they kick you out :P
These being said, a forum can be a nice place to hang around, a good place to learn, and the best place to meet up people who are like-minded and believe in the same things that you do. Joining a forum is like walking into a large party, where everyone is a stranger to you. You have to learn to chat up with new people, and also learn to make some sense.
Some forums are relatively friendlier to new people (noobs, as we like to call them), and are forgiving of all the nonsense that is associated with them. I am not suggesting here that new people are all fools or that all noobs are agents of nonsense - but I have been to quiet a number of forums, and that is usually the case. So, it would be wise on your part to distinguish yourself from the rest, and prove to the other people that you are worthy of their time.
Another thing to do is to try and be polite to everyone, irrespective of whether they are polite to you or not. If two short-tempered people get in on an argument on a forum, it inevitably turns into what poeple call a flame war. And believe me, it is not a pretty sight. Flame wars on forums are what gang fights are at bars - both usually end with people taking sides, and both sides fighting till they forget what they are fighting for, in the first place.
Try to read up on whatever you are going to post. And don't speak unless you are absolutely sure of what you are saying. Failure to comply will make you look like a fool :P Also have in mind that the question that you are going to ask has already been asked and answered twice over, in a couple of hundred forums across the internet. If you can find it in Google, you have no business asking it in a forum.
You may think that gaining the favor of the forum's administrators or moderators may work in your favor. You will never have been more wrong in your life. People who try to flatter admins and mods are loathed by other members of the community. Try not to be that guy who agrees with whatever the admin says, and has no opinion of his own.
If every single person on a forum calls you a jerk, then that probably means that you are one. Try to change your attitude. Go over posts and personal messages again, and try to think of what went wrong, and where. Beware. Forums treat jerks the way teachers treat students with incomplete homework - they kick you out :P